Bon Appétit (February 2014)
We are firm believers in the mid-week dinner party.
Or rather: We're not scared of the mid-week dinner party.
Here's why.
When life is ramped up and busy, it's easy to not see friends, relegating them to weekend time. And we, like you, we're sure, are staying plenty busy these days. But we love our friends, and want to prioritize spending time with them. And we love having people over for dinner rather than meeting friends at restaurants. And really, if we wait until the weekend to have people over for dinner, we'll spend the entire day getting ready for their arrival. We love to cook, but after a long week at our offices, we don't always want to spend the full weekend in the kitchen.
As it turns out, mid-week dinner parties are totally doable, even on our busiest days when we don't get home from work and the gym until late, and have, say, only 30 minutes or so until the guests arrive. (In our younger, less prepared days, we thought nothing of inviting people over for dinner and have them arrive when the cooking had barely begun. Dinner would regularly hit the table after nine o'clock, but we always had plenty of wine and snacks to keep everyone sufficiently sated until showtime.)
But there's a catch, of course, to successfully being able to have friends over for dinner in the middle of the week: careful planning. All you need is the right mix of dishes, some of which can be prepped in part or full in advance. That's what we did last week, when we invited our friends Ken and Jeff over for dinner to debrief on Thailand (Jeff had given us lots of good recommendations for our trip) and talk about their upcoming nuptials (they're deep into wedding planning -- huzzah!).
So we planned a three-course dinner that had a simple beginning and end, but we chose a more impressive entree that could be made well ahead of time. We started with a Kale, Black Radish and Walnut Salad. For dessert, we served bowls of simple, ginger-and-cinnamon-infused citrus (kind of a different take on Clementines in Cinnamon Syrup). The mix of grapefruits, blood oranges and naval oranges were bright and tasty. For the entree, we chose this Pork and Squash Stew with Chiles.
Here's why it works on a weeknight: The salad and dessert ingredients could be prepped in advance, then assembled as guests arrived. And the entree was nearly all done in advance; we just had to heat the dish and garnish it before serving.
We got home at 7:30 -- they arrived at 8:00 -- and shortly after, we all fell in love with this Pork and Squash Stew with Chiles.